Comments on: What should I do if my future wife hates my dog? http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/ Fri, 18 May 2012 02:22:03 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: sean t http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/comment-page-1/#comment-6159 sean t Wed, 10 Mar 2010 20:53:01 +0000 http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/#comment-6159 screw her keep the dog<a href="http://www.businessbrokersguide.com/houston-business-broker.htm"> sean t</a> screw her keep the dog sean t

]]> By: mairin http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/comment-page-1/#comment-6158 mairin Tue, 09 Mar 2010 11:34:03 +0000 http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/#comment-6158 Well are you prepared to get rid of your dog? Are you prepared for a life with no dog? Because that is what is going to happen. When I was choosing who to be with one of my requirements was they have to LOVE dogs (and all animals) as much as I do because I KNOW I have to have dogs in my life. So when I dated a guy who disliked my dog I just did not date him again.. simple as that. I will warn you if you choose the woman over the dog you will end up resenting her terribly because you had to give away your dog. Even if she lets you keep the dog but forces you to have it outside is that going to make you happy?? Me I would be miserable with worry and sadness. Are you really going to let your dog stay outside summer and winter because your wife won't let it inside? A Dachshund is a smaller dog and won't fair well in extreme weather (hot or cold). Honestly if it were me I would end the relationship because I know I could not live with myself if I did that to my dog. Find someone who has a love of animals like you do.<a href="http://www.resumeminers.com/student-loans/types-of-student-loans.htm"> mairin</a> Well are you prepared to get rid of your dog? Are you prepared for a life with no dog? Because that is what is going to happen.
When I was choosing who to be with one of my requirements was they have to LOVE dogs (and all animals) as much as I do because I KNOW I have to have dogs in my life. So when I dated a guy who disliked my dog I just did not date him again.. simple as that.
I will warn you if you choose the woman over the dog you will end up resenting her terribly because you had to give away your dog. Even if she lets you keep the dog but forces you to have it outside is that going to make you happy?? Me I would be miserable with worry and sadness. Are you really going to let your dog stay outside summer and winter because your wife won’t let it inside? A Dachshund is a smaller dog and won’t fair well in extreme weather (hot or cold).
Honestly if it were me I would end the relationship because I know I could not live with myself if I did that to my dog. Find someone who has a love of animals like you do. mairin

]]> By: steve http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/comment-page-1/#comment-6157 steve Sat, 06 Mar 2010 09:29:30 +0000 http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/#comment-6157 try getting another wife lol<a href="http://www.bigjobtools.com/srch/srch.php?q=towing"> steve</a> try getting another wife lol steve

]]> By: gsdmix http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/comment-page-1/#comment-6156 gsdmix Wed, 03 Mar 2010 05:35:05 +0000 http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/#comment-6156 I married someone with different feeling towards dogs then myself. He's gone the dog's still here!!!!!!!!!!<a href="http://www.autostires.com/kumho-tires-271"> gsdmix</a> I married someone with different feeling towards dogs then myself. He’s gone the dog’s still here!!!!!!!!!! gsdmix

]]> By: Peekablue http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/comment-page-1/#comment-6155 Peekablue Sun, 28 Feb 2010 08:37:27 +0000 http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/#comment-6155 If she really loves you, she should be willing to at least compromise, especially when it's something that's so important to you. You should seriously reconsider marriage to this woman.<a href="http://www.safedebthelp.com/credit-card-christian-debt-help.htm"> Peekablue</a> If she really loves you, she should be willing to at least compromise, especially when it’s something that’s so important to you. You should seriously reconsider marriage to this woman. Peekablue

]]> By: mika http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/comment-page-1/#comment-6154 mika Wed, 24 Feb 2010 22:50:45 +0000 http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/#comment-6154 Choose the dog!<a href="http://www.djthings.com/road-runner-m4385"> mika</a> Choose the dog! mika

]]> By: Mrs Ward http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/comment-page-1/#comment-6153 Mrs Ward Mon, 22 Feb 2010 10:36:19 +0000 http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/#comment-6153 As a newlywed one thing I have to tell you is that marriage is about compromise. And she is not compromising. If she truly loved you and respected your wishes she would understand how much the dog means to you. If she doesn't respect you on this level what is she going to do in the future? She is probably a great person, but maybe she needs to examine her priorities. Does she love you more than she hates dogs? Honestly, I don't know how "dog people" and "non-dog people" get along. There are such differences in the basic personalities of the two. You guys need to have a serious conversation. She needs to decide if she loves you enough to deal with what sounds like a very tolerable animal. And you have to realize that if you marry this woman she has to feel more loved than the dog. Let her know that the dog will not encroach on her "territory". You also need to explain that it is not recommended for Doxies to be outdoors animals. They are very temperature sensitive. They are also amazingly loyal and sweet animals. Ultimately you have to decide whether or not this is a "deal breaker". For me, it would be. Good luck!<a href="http://www.currencyexchangemarket.com/currency-exchange-trading.htm"> Mrs Ward</a> As a newlywed one thing I have to tell you is that marriage is about compromise. And she is not compromising. If she truly loved you and respected your wishes she would understand how much the dog means to you. If she doesn’t respect you on this level what is she going to do in the future? She is probably a great person, but maybe she needs to examine her priorities. Does she love you more than she hates dogs?
Honestly, I don’t know how “dog people” and “non-dog people” get along. There are such differences in the basic personalities of the two.

You guys need to have a serious conversation. She needs to decide if she loves you enough to deal with what sounds like a very tolerable animal. And you have to realize that if you marry this woman she has to feel more loved than the dog. Let her know that the dog will not encroach on her “territory”.

You also need to explain that it is not recommended for Doxies to be outdoors animals. They are very temperature sensitive. They are also amazingly loyal and sweet animals.

Ultimately you have to decide whether or not this is a “deal breaker”. For me, it would be.

Good luck! Mrs Ward

]]> By: Tazzy http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/comment-page-1/#comment-6152 Tazzy Sun, 21 Feb 2010 17:21:45 +0000 http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/#comment-6152 I may be a bit biased being a complete dog person/lover...but I'd be thinking twice about marrying someone who is so rigid about my dog. She claims not to be afraid of dogs, yet is forcing you to plan on banishing your beloved pet outdoors isolated from the only home he's known if you want to marry her. Which really indicates that she has no consideration of how you feel about your pet or about whats best for your pet. I'd hate to see how she'd act if you had a human kid, not a dog. You're going to make whatever decision you are, but someone who REALLY loves you is going to love anything/anyone you love and support you even if its not always 'comfortable'. Your dog is only going to be around for @15 yrs(another 10 if you're lucky). She's as your wife is supposed to be in for your lifetime. You'd think she'd be more understanding and less demanding. If she's this demanding now, I hate to see where those demands go later. But if you decide to stay with her, it would be more humane to find your dog a home that will love and cherish it like it deserves not abandon it in a yard for a relationship. Your dog was raised as an indoor dog, and will not understand nor likely do well suddenly as a outdoor dog. :( best of luck,<a href="http://www.doggydisease.com/addisons-disease-dog.htm"> Tazzy</a> I may be a bit biased being a complete dog person/lover…but I’d be thinking twice about marrying someone who is so rigid about my dog.
She claims not to be afraid of dogs, yet is forcing you to plan on banishing your beloved pet outdoors isolated from the only home he’s known if you want to marry her.
Which really indicates that she has no consideration of how you feel about your pet or about whats best for your pet. I’d hate to see how she’d act if you had a human kid, not a dog.

You’re going to make whatever decision you are, but someone who REALLY loves you is going to love anything/anyone you love and support you even if its not always ‘comfortable’. Your dog is only going to be around for
@15 yrs(another 10 if you’re lucky). She’s as your wife is supposed to be in for your lifetime. You’d think she’d be more understanding and less demanding. If she’s this demanding now, I hate to see where those demands go later.
But if you decide to stay with her, it would be more humane to find your dog a home that will love and cherish it like it deserves not
abandon it in a yard for a relationship. Your dog was raised as an indoor dog, and will not understand nor likely do well suddenly as a outdoor dog. :(
best of luck, Tazzy

]]> By: koehlerdogtraining http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/comment-page-1/#comment-6151 koehlerdogtraining Fri, 19 Feb 2010 06:45:03 +0000 http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/#comment-6151 I have two ex-wives, each decided they didn't like my dogs. So think this over, your dog is willing to adapt to your adding a new fixture to your lifestyle, yet this new fixture is un-willing to adapt to your most loyal companion. 'Nuff said.<a href="http://www.freshfacecare.com/527"> koehlerdogtraining</a> I have two ex-wives, each decided they didn’t like my dogs.

So think this over, your dog is willing to adapt to your adding a new fixture to your lifestyle, yet this new fixture is un-willing to adapt to your most loyal companion. ‘Nuff said. koehlerdogtraining

]]> By: Help http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/comment-page-1/#comment-6150 Help Tue, 16 Feb 2010 22:30:06 +0000 http://www.doggydisease.com/blog/what-should-i-do-if-my-future-wife-hates-my-dog/#comment-6150 My suggestion is get rid of the future wife.Dog is man's best friend.<a href="http://www.ecohomefashion.com/centerpieces-72"> Help</a> My suggestion is get rid of the future wife.Dog is man’s best friend. Help

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